Equally, if you want to turn someone down, do it nicely. If you are turned down, take it in stride. You may want to bring shower shoes, but it’s not always required. At this point, taking a shower is a good idea. Gay men’s clubs etiquette: usually you will enter the club and immediately change into a towel. Consent is a big deal at these clubs and the best way to get consent is to clearly ask, get a clear answer, and never do more than you discussed. If not, the golden rule is: always ask first. Many swinger clubs have rules posted at the door. Swinger clubs etiquette: generally, men are required to be with a woman in order to enter and women are usually fine to come alone. figure out what you are willing to do with a stranger.In both cases, a membership is often required, however these are usually available on your first visit for a fee. Swinger clubs have more rules, gay men’s clubs have fewer rules. The etiquette of a sex club is highly related to what kind it is. However, many people choose to rely on hookup apps (on their phones), a few apps are: Blendr (gay/straight/bi), Tinder (gay/straight/bi), Her (women only), Scruff (men only), and Grindr (men only). There are sex and swinger clubs in nearly ever state in the US.